Dandelion - both sets of shoes are ok - quite feminine and non "tarty". And those flaps are a gold card faceful.
Sandy - your flaps are "angel wings"? How cute! The Queen's are known as "one's cunt lips". Not being posh, mine are just "pissflaps". I have heard (mostly girls) refer to them as:-
Bacon sandwich
Badly packed kebab
Bearded clam
Beef curtains
Bologna draperies
Cunt cookies
Cunt lips
Fish flaps
Inshin (Japanese friends)
Loose meat sandwich
Meat drapes
Mud flaps (black women)
Petals (romantic euphemism)
Piss curtains
Piss fenders
Piss flaps
Pork shutters
Pussy lips
Roast beef sandwich
Taco
Vertical smilers
Wagon ruts
Any more expresions for the most beautiful of all body parts?